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July 11, 2024

Let a bad day be a bad day

What to do when you have a bad day

Let a bad day be a bad day

Welcome to “It Starts With The Dream,” a space dedicated to helping you create a vision for your life, get clear on what you want, and move forward by setting goals and working on your mindset.

In this video podcast I want to talk about managing mental health during difficult times, specifically focusing on how to cope with bad days and weeks.

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Navigating a Bad Day

A few weeks ago, I experienced a particularly bad day. This rough patch stemmed from some unresolved health issues that I thought were behind me but resurfaced unexpectedly. This led to a period of low mood and increased anxiety. For those of you who don’t know, I’ve battled postnatal depression and anxiety. While these feelings still surface from time to time, I’ve learned ways to support myself and continue working towards my dreams.

On this particularly bad day, I struggled to maintain my usual self-care routines. I broke my boundaries, sought comfort in unhelpful habits like excessive TV watching and unhealthy eating, and felt overwhelmed with emotions. I cried on and off throughout the day, even while out and about.

It was tough, but I came out of that lull and wanted to share some thoughts that could help you.

Strategies for Coping with Bad Days

  1. Acknowledging Bad Days Without Guilt

    It’s essential to accept that bad days happen. They don’t define you or your future. Allow yourself to experience the emotions without feeling guilty about them. Recognising that everyone has bad days can be a relief.

  2. Avoiding Negative Labels

    Don’t label yourself as “depressed” or “anxious” based on temporary feelings. These labels can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, separate yourself from these emotions by acknowledging that you are experiencing them rather than being them.

  3. Recognising Temporary Feelings

    Emotions are temporary and will pass. Let a bad day be just that—a single bad day. Don’t let it turn into a bad week, month, or year. By understanding the transient nature of emotions, you can prevent a downward spiral.

  4. Starting Fresh

    Each day is a new opportunity. Don’t let one bad day derail your progress. Focus on making small, positive changes each day. This mindset helps you regain control and move forward.

  5. Maintaining Boundaries and Self-Care

    Stick to your self-care routines even when it’s hard. Avoid seeking comfort in habits that don’t truly support your well-being, like excessive TV watching or unhealthy eating. Consistent self-care is crucial for long-term mental health.

  6. Seeking Support

    Reach out for help when you need it, whether from friends, family, or professionals. Sharing your struggles can provide relief and new perspectives. Don’t hesitate to seek support; it’s a sign of strength, not weakness.

  7. Identifying Triggers

    Understand what triggers your difficult emotions. Reflect on recent events or stressors that may have contributed to your bad day. This awareness can help you manage your responses more effectively in the future.

Additional Tips for Managing Tough Times

  • Acceptance: Accept that life has ups and downs, and everyone experiences bad days, even those who seem to have it all together.
  • Reflection: Reflect on the causes of your bad day to understand and address them. Knowing what triggered your feelings can be empowering.
  • Small Steps: Start with small, manageable steps to get back on track. This approach makes it easier to regain your momentum.
  • Support Systems: Use support systems, such as a GP, pastoral care or counseling, to navigate tough times. Reaching out can make a significant difference in your journey.

Letting a bad day be just a bad day can prevent it from defining your life and actions. Remember, you are valuable and have a purpose, regardless of the struggles you face. Embrace the ups and downs as part of the human experience and continue to move forward.

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If you found this post helpful, please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments. Let’s support each other through the ups and downs.

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It’s time to decide on what you want and start making it happen.

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