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POWERFUL MINDSET SHIFTS TO CRUSH SELF-DOUBT, OVERCOME CLARITY BLOCKS AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS
Powerful Mindset Shifts to Crush Self-Doubt, overcome clarity blocks and Achieve Your Goals
There’s something I’ve noticed whilst coaching clients these last 9 months.
They often talk about needing clarity or not sure what they’re doing.
But as we’ve started talking I’ve realised they know EXACTLY what they want to do. There’s 3 things I’ve come to see are happening in their minds when they say they dont know what to do or what they want.
1. They simply don’t believe they can do it
2. They worry about what other people will think
3. They don’t know all the steps to get there
I’ve seen this come up so often, and I’ve experienced it myself too.
Here’s a few tips to move past it.
1. You Don't Believe You Can Do It
You will build confidence and trust in yourself as you take action. This first issue does require stepping out of your comfort zone. The more you do that the more you build confidence in yourself.
So how do you step out of your comfort zone?
Start small. Ask yourself what’s the next tiny step I can make towards my dream? Start there. Then do it again and again. The other things that’s helped me take action even when it’s been hard or things have failed is asking myself “If I don’t even try/don’t take any action – what will my life look like in 5 years?”
The helps me see what’s at stake and gets me moving in the hard times.
2. You Worry About What Other People Will Think
This one has been a biggie for me, especially around friends and family. So you know what, I’m going to suggest something that I don’t see suggested.
I suggest that you don’t tell your friends or family and start that project or work towards that goal in secret. If it’s a business start a new social media or website and share there. Many times our friends and family aren’t even our ideal clients anyway.
Starting in secret allowed me to get going without the extra strain of worrying what everyone will think. As I hit milestones and felt more confident I started to share it more with friends and family.
Ideally if you know this is an issue for you, you’d work on your mindset around self acceptance, approving yourself and knowing you have something to offer, but I also believe in the past of least resistance and if starting in secret means you get going now instead of 6 months then do it!
3. You Don’t Know All the Steps
I was convinced all I needed was a blueprint plan & strategy when I started my business. Then I joined a course and got one. Did I take action on it? NO. Why? Because my mindset wasn’t there. I was scared to do the tasks.
Over time I’ve realised thinking we need all the steps can keep us stuck in procrastination. Truth be told we all know so much and can get access to information very easily that we already know more than enough to take those first steps. It’s actually a case of a lack of self belief than actually not knowing what to do.
If you find yourself feeling like you’re stuck and don’t know what to do next, ask yourself ”What do I already know to do and haven’t tried yet?” Then do that. And again as you take these actions you’ll cultivate self trust and the path forwards starts to unfold.
Did these tips help? Which one have you experienced?
Comment and let me know!
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