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December 9, 2024

Embrace Your ‘Culture Add’: Turn What Makes You Different Into Your Superpower

your unique world view and experience

In a time where AI is everywhere and businesses are blending in, your greatest asset is YOU. Your story, your culture, your experiences—these are the things no algorithm can replicate. In this video, I talk about the concept of your ‘Culture Add,’ as defined by Danielle Leslie, and why the very things you think make you “too different” are exactly what the world needs.

It’s easy to feel like what makes you unique is a barrier to success, but in reality, it’s your superpower. Your quirks, your background, your perspective—they make you relatable and allow you to connect with your audience on a human level.

Whether you’re building a business, creating content, or just trying to find your place in the world, leaning into your humanness will make you stand out in an age of artificial sameness. So, how can you turn your story into your greatest strength?

Watch this video to find out.

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Embrace Your ‘Culture Add’: Turn What Makes You Different Into Your Superpower by Chisomo Fajardo

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(00:00:00):
I wanted to talk to you about your culture ad.

(00:00:03):
Now,

(00:00:03):
you’ve got some course product thing that you’re sharing,

(00:00:06):
a message you’re sharing,

(00:00:08):
something you’re making,

(00:00:09):
expertise you want to share with the world.

(00:00:12):
And then you’re looking around and you’re going, oh, other people are doing it.

(00:00:15):
Other people are making courses about goal setting.

(00:00:18):
self-care riding horses whatever it is and then you’re thinking like why are they

(00:00:24):
gonna get it by for me when so many people do that now here’s the thing so many

(00:00:28):
people might be doing the same thing but no one is doing it like you so that’s

(00:00:32):
where this culture ad piece comes in I heard it from Danielle Leslie

(00:00:37):
And then she might have, I don’t know if she coined the phrase, but I heard it from her first years ago.

(00:00:42):
And it’s about those things that make you different, the things that make you.

(00:00:47):
And these are things from your culture,

(00:00:48):
from your lived experience,

(00:00:50):
from your life and how your life has been.

(00:00:54):
So it’s those things that make you different where you almost be like, oh, I can’t do this because…

(00:01:00):
i’m x y z so all the things you actually think are the reasons you can’t do

(00:01:04):
something actually tend to be the reasons why you’re different and unique and those

(00:01:09):
are the things you need to draw into and lean on so for me it’s like i have got a

(00:01:15):
bit of a different upbringing so i don’t think if i meet someone on the road like

(00:01:19):
there’s not likely to have lived the life i’ve lived or you know experience i’ve

(00:01:23):
lived i was born in zambia in africa

(00:01:27):
Moved to the UK when I was about four or five, lived in Wales, which is my father’s country.

(00:01:33):
Moved to Kenya for a couple of years as 10 to 12, that kind of age.

(00:01:39):
And all those things have actually shaped my worldview, shaped how I see things.

(00:01:43):
being mixed race and not and yeah even just being mixed race you could say oh but

(00:01:49):
there’s loads of mixed race people and there are but when I was younger most of the

(00:01:52):
time if I saw a mixed race family I saw a black father and a white mother and I had

(00:01:57):
the opposite I have a black African mother and a white Welsh father so that was

(00:02:02):
again different so even when you feel like oh that’s kind of the same I’m the same

(00:02:06):
as everyone else there’s still something different and you know unique and that is

(00:02:11):
going to draw people in

(00:02:12):
Because there’s people who are going to see something of a shared experience with you,

(00:02:16):
a sort of sense of like,

(00:02:19):
you understand me,

(00:02:19):
you get me.

(00:02:20):
And those things are all the things that you should bring into it.

(00:02:24):
And, you know, sometimes, you know, I grew up, I didn’t actually have black or brown friends growing up.

(00:02:32):
I lived in an English village that was pretty much mostly white.

(00:02:36):
I think there was two Asian families when we moved there in the late 80s.

(00:02:39):
My mum was like the first black person there.

(00:02:41):
We were the first mixed race family.

(00:02:43):
And there was another lady who I think was Afro-Turkish.

(00:02:49):
So she was very light but her hair wasn’t like straight like maybe most Turkish people you’d think of.

(00:02:54):
It was like more Afro-textured.

(00:02:57):
you know there was them and then it was like us and it was just like people would

(00:03:00):
look at us and kids would ask funny weird questions and you know ignoring questions

(00:03:05):
because they just weren’t familiar so you know there’s that experience that’s gonna

(00:03:10):
like make me see the world differently from someone else and growing up in a small

(00:03:15):
um small medium village in England my life was completely different from someone

(00:03:21):
growing up in the inner cities and

(00:03:23):
so when I actually first started having had my you know first black friend that was

(00:03:29):
like my own that I’ve met through like school college etc I was 16 so that might

(00:03:35):
sound really strange to someone else who grew up somewhere like London who has had

(00:03:42):
friends who look like them all their whole life my friends who look like me were

(00:03:47):
were scattered all across the world and

(00:03:49):
And then we’d sort of try and meet up every now and then,

(00:03:52):
you know,

(00:03:52):
someone’s over,

(00:03:53):
we meet up and we do these other get togethers.

(00:03:56):
But it was not my experience to live with people who look like me, apart from my brothers.

(00:04:02):
So again, that shapes my outlook in life.

(00:04:05):
And then when I went to uni and there was a lot more diversity at university.

(00:04:11):
My friend and I, we were getting teased.

(00:04:13):
They were calling us country and saying that we spoke properly and laughing at our

(00:04:17):
accents and how we speak.

(00:04:18):
And to be honest, I feel like I speak pretty casually, a bit too, you know, slang and all of that.

(00:04:24):
So I was just like, what are you on about?

(00:04:26):
talking how we talk and you know my parents would be like can you speak properly

(00:04:30):
you know so I didn’t really get it but that’s like something again that just was a

(00:04:36):
very different upbringing and so someone else who might essentially look like me

(00:04:41):
could have a completely different experience of life than me and that’s the thing

(00:04:45):
to remember and then those things that make us different make us unique and instead

(00:04:49):
of like feeling ashamed or I don’t know like feeling like oh oh I need to be a

(00:04:54):
certain way to fit in

(00:04:56):
i need to be this way to fit into this group i need to be that way to fit into the

(00:04:59):
group it’s just to accept like that is all of you so i’m too what you know i’m

(00:05:04):
white for certain spaces i’m too black for certain spaces and i you know i just

(00:05:09):
accept that i’m too african for certain spaces i’m too european for certain spaces

(00:05:15):
and i you know i just go with it now i’m like that’s you know i am me

(00:05:19):
I am all these random mixes and all these different experiences.

(00:05:23):
I like what I like.

(00:05:24):
I grew up how I grew up and I liked how I grew up.

(00:05:26):
And you might look at it on the outside and like, oh, that was quite a white life.

(00:05:31):
I’m like, what’s a white life?

(00:05:32):
What’s a black life?

(00:05:33):
To me, those phrases, that all sounds kind of funny because it’s just like we’re human beings.

(00:05:38):
But, you know, that’s how someone else might see things.

(00:05:41):
And this is how I’ve lived and this is my lived experience.

(00:05:44):
So,

(00:05:45):
it shapes how I see the world and for me then I’m a person who’s like a bridge

(00:05:50):
builder who wants to connect people who sort of puts you know puts our hands across

(00:05:56):
the divide um likes to focus on what I have in common with people what we you know

(00:06:01):
what we are working towards what we the positive outcomes that we both want though

(00:06:05):
we might see things very differently and the way we think to get there is going to

(00:06:08):
be different

(00:06:09):
So that’s been me,

(00:06:10):
a person who’s like,

(00:06:12):
you know,

(00:06:13):
always sought to understand someone who might see the world completely different

(00:06:18):
for me to hear what they say,

(00:06:20):
respectfully hear what they say and know that,

(00:06:23):
okay,

(00:06:23):
that’s a different part they’ve chosen for me.

(00:06:25):
But that’s kind of how I’ve seen the world.

(00:06:28):
And I think because of how I’ve lived, that is done that.

(00:06:31):
So being in different cultures, living in a culture that’s not my own,

(00:06:38):
You learn something new and you see a different way of doing things.

(00:06:41):
So I think all of those types of things, you’ve got those experiences too.

(00:06:44):
You’ve got something very unique and you’re thinking it’s a reason that you can’t

(00:06:48):
do something while you won’t be taken seriously.

(00:06:51):
It might be something else for you.

(00:06:53):
It might be you didn’t go to university or you didn’t learn your skill in the usual way.

(00:06:59):
You taught yourself or something like that.

(00:07:02):
But that’s what’s going to make someone actually be drawn to you

(00:07:04):
Because there’s someone else who’s just learning and figuring things out by

(00:07:09):
themselves and they’re like,

(00:07:10):
okay,

(00:07:10):
if they did it,

(00:07:11):
then I could do it.

(00:07:12):
And there’s someone else who has gone to university and wants to learn with someone

(00:07:16):
who’s gone,

(00:07:16):
you know,

(00:07:16):
had that similar path.

(00:07:18):
So all these different things are not a reason to like dismiss yourself and cross yourself out.

(00:07:23):
It’s a reason why you’re even like more, more the right person.

(00:07:29):
to share what you’re sharing because there’s someone out there who will connect to

(00:07:35):
your way of seeing things,

(00:07:36):
your personal experience,

(00:07:38):
your personal aspects.

(00:07:39):
So those are reasons why they’re going to actually want to buy it from you, not from someone else.

(00:07:44):
And I’ve seen that in my own life where…

(00:07:47):
I’ve seen, you know, I’ve seen different people and I’m like, oh, I can identify with that bit of them.

(00:07:51):
Oh yeah,

(00:07:52):
I get that thing of like living in a,

(00:07:54):
like a smaller place or I know what they’re talking about when they’re describing a

(00:07:59):
childhood in,

(00:08:01):
you know,

(00:08:01):
in Kenya or Africa.

(00:08:03):
I can kind of understand that too.

(00:08:05):
And I’m,

(00:08:06):
so I get drawn to different people and I like,

(00:08:08):
I love it when,

(00:08:09):
and sometimes I’m drawn to someone and it’s not because there’s that connection for me,

(00:08:13):
but it’s what I see is that they own

(00:08:16):
who they are they own what makes them different they own their culture ad um so one

(00:08:21):
of my coaches is um she’s called mandy and she was born in jamaica and been living

(00:08:27):
here i don’t know a long time but she sometimes just starts talking about what and

(00:08:31):
i was like i have never seen that in an online space in a professional like

(00:08:37):
coaching um pro you know professional coaching person

(00:08:41):
And I was like, I love that.

(00:08:43):
Like, I was just like, I love that.

(00:08:45):
Like, just be you.

(00:08:47):
Bring all of you.

(00:08:48):
Bring all of yourself, your culture, your experiences, what you think makes you different.

(00:08:54):
And you’re just trying to hide it away.

(00:08:56):
You’re trying to, like,

(00:08:57):
polish over it with a professionalism and I don’t know how to say it.

(00:09:03):
Like,

(00:09:04):
yeah,

(00:09:04):
you’re,

(00:09:05):
you know,

(00:09:06):
painting your walls magnolia when you really want to paint your walls pink and

(00:09:10):
green or have a crazy wallpaper.

(00:09:13):
And you’re just like putting magnolia over your whole life.

(00:09:16):
And it’s like dulling out all the amazing things that make you different and unique

(00:09:21):
and why someone’s actually going to connect with you.

(00:09:23):
So, you know, look at your branding.

(00:09:27):
look at your messaging,

(00:09:28):
look at your products it creates,

(00:09:31):
and just say,

(00:09:31):
like,

(00:09:32):
where am I,

(00:09:32):
like,

(00:09:32):
watering down,

(00:09:33):
like,

(00:09:34):
who I am and why I’m different and why I’m unique?

(00:09:37):
Where am I watering down because I think it’s not the acceptable way and I need to, like…

(00:09:42):
do it the right way,

(00:09:43):
the proper way,

(00:09:43):
the professional way,

(00:09:44):
the sleek way,

(00:09:45):
the polished way,

(00:09:46):
the marketing way,

(00:09:47):
whatever it is.

(00:09:48):
So just,

(00:09:49):
yeah,

(00:09:49):
look at your business,

(00:09:50):
look at all the course you’re making,

(00:09:52):
all the thing you want to share.

(00:09:53):
Maybe it’s not business,

(00:09:55):
but you’re just blogging about something and teaching,

(00:09:57):
making posts about making,

(00:09:58):
I don’t know,

(00:09:59):
crafts or something.

(00:10:00):
And just see where you are sort of trying to fit in with a more commercial version

(00:10:06):
of it and how you’ve seen it taught that you think that’s an acceptable way.

(00:10:11):
and then think okay what are the things that i think disqualify me from doing this

(00:10:16):
and then just bring them in bring those things in and just yeah just let more of

(00:10:22):
you be through your work through your message through your craft your creation your

(00:10:27):
design your speaking your teaching whatever it is so just wanted to share that with

(00:10:33):
you today

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The reason Christian woman aren't getting the results in business/coaching/mentoring courses 

As kingdom women we aim to align our lives with Kingdom values and Gods word 

That can be hard to do when you're in a program and find out the hosts world views and some of their teaching either directly goes against God's word or more often is misaligned.

You're learning something practical but the host brings in tarot cards or advice from their spiritual guides.

This has happened so often to myself and friends.

Holy Spirit discernment kicks in and you find yourself wondering how to engage with the rest of the course or content.

You find yourself filtering the content or trying to put it through a biblical lens and it's really quite exhausting.

You now find it hard to be fully behind the program you've paid for and the doubts start to rise.

How much of their content is influenced from other sources?

What if you ignore that bit but focus on the skills parts?

I think you can see how that sort of thinking is going to make it really hard to get amazing results from the program.

Belief and getting behind something is a big part of success and also trusting enough so you can actually take the action.

The Bible talks about the double minded man should not expecting to receive anything. It's very hard to benefit when you're in 2 opposite minds!

But how do you align your trust/faith when you sense the spiritual red flags?

I found myself struggling more and more and knew I was being called into faith based settings.

I didn't think I was going to be one of those creating the setting but here we are, as I follow God's pull and direction.

Brand New Era is that space to uncover your message, use your gifts and start your God led business/ministry/service.

Join bit.ly/bneselfstudy by Sunday night

DM me if you have any questions

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The reason Christian woman aren't getting the results in business/coaching/mentoring courses As kingdom women we aim to align our lives with Kingdom values and Gods word That can be hard to do when you're in a program and find out the hosts world views and some of their teaching either directly goes against God's word or more often is misaligned. You're learning something practical but the host brings in tarot cards or advice from their spiritual guides. This has happened so often to myself and friends. Holy Spirit discernment kicks in and you find yourself wondering how to engage with the rest of the course or content. You find yourself filtering the content or trying to put it through a biblical lens and it's really quite exhausting. You now find it hard to be fully behind the program you've paid for and the doubts start to rise. How much of their content is influenced from other sources? What if you ignore that bit but focus on the skills parts? I think you can see how that sort of thinking is going to make it really hard to get amazing results from the program. Belief and getting behind something is a big part of success and also trusting enough so you can actually take the action. The Bible talks about the double minded man should not expecting to receive anything. It's very hard to benefit when you're in 2 opposite minds! But how do you align your trust/faith when you sense the spiritual red flags? I found myself struggling more and more and knew I was being called into faith based settings. I didn't think I was going to be one of those creating the setting but here we are, as I follow God's pull and direction. Brand New Era is that space to uncover your message, use your gifts and start your God led business/ministry/service. Join bit.ly/bneselfstudy by Sunday night DM me if you have any questions . . . #kingdombusiness #womenempoweringwomen #innerhealingjourney #innerhealingjourney
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Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

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✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

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Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
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Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
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If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

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Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

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Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

bit ly/bneselfstudy

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#MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

bit ly/bneselfstudy

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#MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

bit ly/bneselfstudy

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#MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

bit ly/bneselfstudy

.

.
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#MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

bit ly/bneselfstudy

.

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#MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?”

More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked?

So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache.

They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder.
And yet... something still feels missing.

It’s not a failure.
It’s not you being ungrateful.
It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more.

I believe that yearning is from God.

He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason.
And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. 

In this course, you’ll:

✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs
✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling
✨ Build unshakable confidence
✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness

With my 4-part framework:
Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission,
you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve.

🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June.
Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later).

If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity

💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link.

Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together.

bit ly/bneselfstudy

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#MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
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Have you ever quietly wondered… “Is there more?” More than the routines? The roles? The boxes ticked? So many women I’ve spoken to lately—clients, friends, even myself—have felt this quiet ache. They’ve followed the path, hit the milestones, maybe even climbed the ladder. And yet... something still feels missing. It’s not a failure. It’s not you being ungrateful. It’s a holy discontent — a divine invitation to more. I believe that yearning is from God. He’s placed gifts, dreams, and stories inside you for a reason. And He’s calling you to make an eternal impact with them. That’s why I created Brand New Era — a self-paced course to help you break free from fear and finally share what God has placed inside of you. In this course, you’ll: ✨ Break through fear and limiting beliefs ✨ Clarify your God-given message and calling ✨ Build unshakable confidence ✨ Start showing up with purpose and boldness With my 4-part framework: Milestones + Mastery + Message = Mission, you’ll connect the dots between your past, your purpose, and the people you’re called to serve. 🎉 Access to the self-study version ends Sunday 1st June. Enroll now and get the option to upgrade to the live group experience for just $99 (vs $500+ later). If you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or unsure where to start—this is your opportunity 💬 Drop a “🔥” in the comments if this speaks to you or send me a DM with the word “ERA” to get the link. Let’s step into your Brand New Era—together. bit ly/bneselfstudy . . . #MadeForMore #ChristianEntrepreneur #PurposeInChrist #FaithDrivenWomen
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Feeling held back with releasing your faith based program/coaching/training because you feel you need to be responsible for getting your clients results?

We need to remember it's not our talents and gifts that's equipping us, it's God and ultimately it's his responsibility to change and heal hearts and minds.

Our responsibility is to simply do as he's asked.

1 Corinthians 3:6-9 reminds us we plant a seed, someone else may water it but God makes it grow....and the one who plants and the one who waters has one purpose, they will each be rewarded to their own labour.

I pray that takes the heavy burden off you and releases you to share your God breathed message today 🙏🏼
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Feeling held back with releasing your faith based program/coaching/training because you feel you need to be responsible for getting your clients results? We need to remember it's not our talents and gifts that's equipping us, it's God and ultimately it's his responsibility to change and heal hearts and minds. Our responsibility is to simply do as he's asked. 1 Corinthians 3:6-9 reminds us we plant a seed, someone else may water it but God makes it grow....and the one who plants and the one who waters has one purpose, they will each be rewarded to their own labour. I pray that takes the heavy burden off you and releases you to share your God breathed message today 🙏🏼
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Have you ever felt you couldn't share your message or put that program or workshop out because you didn't feel like the "finished article"? 

This is such a common roadblock to walking out your God given purpose. 

Because you feel it, doesn't mean it has to stop you.

1. We don't need to be the finished article, only Jesus is perfect. Our journey of practising our healing and becoming is for life. We don't need to have arrived we just need to walk in obedience.

2. God will use us, wherever we are and however we are. In our weakness he is made strong, so we don't need to serve from a place of being perfect but from a place of surrender to God and His will.

3. God's grace is enough. He is sufficient, if he has put a message in your heart to share, trust it and ask for his grace and wisdom as you do. James 1:5 says he gives wisdom generously to those who ask.

4. You only need to be a few steps ahead of those you serve. Having someone who's just walked through the trenches is so valuable to the person still in it. We become a picture of hope and what's possible without making them feel like it's unattainable because we're so ahead that we feel unreliable to them.

Which of those gave you the reminder you needed today to take that next step? What would you add?

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 #GodGivenGifts #GodGivenVision #Godgivenstrength #godgivenpurpose #divinepurpose #divinepurposedriven #KingdomWork #KingdomMindset #kingdombusiness
Have you ever felt you couldn't share your message or put that program or workshop out because you didn't feel like the "finished article"? 

This is such a common roadblock to walking out your God given purpose. 

Because you feel it, doesn't mean it has to stop you.

1. We don't need to be the finished article, only Jesus is perfect. Our journey of practising our healing and becoming is for life. We don't need to have arrived we just need to walk in obedience.

2. God will use us, wherever we are and however we are. In our weakness he is made strong, so we don't need to serve from a place of being perfect but from a place of surrender to God and His will.

3. God's grace is enough. He is sufficient, if he has put a message in your heart to share, trust it and ask for his grace and wisdom as you do. James 1:5 says he gives wisdom generously to those who ask.

4. You only need to be a few steps ahead of those you serve. Having someone who's just walked through the trenches is so valuable to the person still in it. We become a picture of hope and what's possible without making them feel like it's unattainable because we're so ahead that we feel unreliable to them.

Which of those gave you the reminder you needed today to take that next step? What would you add?

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 #GodGivenGifts #GodGivenVision #Godgivenstrength #godgivenpurpose #divinepurpose #divinepurposedriven #KingdomWork #KingdomMindset #kingdombusiness
Have you ever felt you couldn't share your message or put that program or workshop out because you didn't feel like the "finished article"? 

This is such a common roadblock to walking out your God given purpose. 

Because you feel it, doesn't mean it has to stop you.

1. We don't need to be the finished article, only Jesus is perfect. Our journey of practising our healing and becoming is for life. We don't need to have arrived we just need to walk in obedience.

2. God will use us, wherever we are and however we are. In our weakness he is made strong, so we don't need to serve from a place of being perfect but from a place of surrender to God and His will.

3. God's grace is enough. He is sufficient, if he has put a message in your heart to share, trust it and ask for his grace and wisdom as you do. James 1:5 says he gives wisdom generously to those who ask.

4. You only need to be a few steps ahead of those you serve. Having someone who's just walked through the trenches is so valuable to the person still in it. We become a picture of hope and what's possible without making them feel like it's unattainable because we're so ahead that we feel unreliable to them.

Which of those gave you the reminder you needed today to take that next step? What would you add?

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 #GodGivenGifts #GodGivenVision #Godgivenstrength #godgivenpurpose #divinepurpose #divinepurposedriven #KingdomWork #KingdomMindset #kingdombusiness
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Have you ever felt you couldn't share your message or put that program or workshop out because you didn't feel like the "finished article"? This is such a common roadblock to walking out your God given purpose. Because you feel it, doesn't mean it has to stop you. 1. We don't need to be the finished article, only Jesus is perfect. Our journey of practising our healing and becoming is for life. We don't need to have arrived we just need to walk in obedience. 2. God will use us, wherever we are and however we are. In our weakness he is made strong, so we don't need to serve from a place of being perfect but from a place of surrender to God and His will. 3. God's grace is enough. He is sufficient, if he has put a message in your heart to share, trust it and ask for his grace and wisdom as you do. James 1:5 says he gives wisdom generously to those who ask. 4. You only need to be a few steps ahead of those you serve. Having someone who's just walked through the trenches is so valuable to the person still in it. We become a picture of hope and what's possible without making them feel like it's unattainable because we're so ahead that we feel unreliable to them. Which of those gave you the reminder you needed today to take that next step? What would you add? . . . #GodGivenGifts #GodGivenVision #Godgivenstrength #godgivenpurpose #divinepurpose #divinepurposedriven #KingdomWork #KingdomMindset #kingdombusiness
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Happy May! This month is about reviewing and life auditing for me. Taking stock of where I am and what I'd like this next quarter.

What about you?

#newmonth 
#newgoals💪 
#lifeaudit
#lifebydesign 
#lifecoach 
#lifeonpurpose
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Happy May! This month is about reviewing and life auditing for me. Taking stock of where I am and what I'd like this next quarter. What about you? #newmonth #newgoals💪 #lifeaudit #lifebydesign #lifecoach #lifeonpurpose
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Happy Resurrection Sunday! We have union with Christ! We are in him and he is in us!
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Happy Resurrection Sunday! We have union with Christ! We are in him and he is in us!
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So many of us are still living by rules we didn’t choose—beliefs we picked up in childhood that quietly shape how we show up, dream, and make decisions. 

In this post, I’m exploring the messages we’ve outgrown and how to rewrite them so we can live more freely, creatively, and on purpose.As a coach, I often hear women echo childhood messages that still shape their lives today. Phrases like:

👉 “If you can’t do it perfectly, don’t do it at all.”
👉 “I want doesn’t get.”
👉 “Be seen and not heard.”
👉 “You can’t pay the bills with art.”

These inherited beliefs may have come from well-meaning adults or cultural norms—but when we hold them up to the light of the lives we want to lead—creative, purpose-driven, and free—they can quietly hold us back.

In this episode, we're talking about the rules we’ve outgrown, and asking the powerful question:

What rules need breaking so we can finally move forward?

Watch or listen below and come tell me what childhood beliefs you've left behind to step into your God given identity and calling?

🔗 bit.ly/breakcr 🔗

 #UnlockYourPurpose #shareyourvoice #womensupportingwomen #InnerHealingJourney #healingtopurpose #KingdomWomen #unlockyourpurpose #innerchild #healyourstories #childhoodhealed
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So many of us are still living by rules we didn’t choose—beliefs we picked up in childhood that quietly shape how we show up, dream, and make decisions. In this post, I’m exploring the messages we’ve outgrown and how to rewrite them so we can live more freely, creatively, and on purpose.As a coach, I often hear women echo childhood messages that still shape their lives today. Phrases like: 👉 “If you can’t do it perfectly, don’t do it at all.” 👉 “I want doesn’t get.” 👉 “Be seen and not heard.” 👉 “You can’t pay the bills with art.” These inherited beliefs may have come from well-meaning adults or cultural norms—but when we hold them up to the light of the lives we want to lead—creative, purpose-driven, and free—they can quietly hold us back. In this episode, we're talking about the rules we’ve outgrown, and asking the powerful question: What rules need breaking so we can finally move forward? Watch or listen below and come tell me what childhood beliefs you've left behind to step into your God given identity and calling? 🔗 bit.ly/breakcr 🔗 #UnlockYourPurpose #shareyourvoice #womensupportingwomen #InnerHealingJourney #healingtopurpose #KingdomWomen #unlockyourpurpose #innerchild #healyourstories #childhoodhealed
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