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August 25, 2023

Inner healing – Healing and forgiving childhood hurts

Inner healing and forgiveness – processing childhood hurts that are causing blocks or resistance from achieving your goals

In this episode I share about my experience of having a Christian based RMR session (Rapid Mindset Renewal) to process and face childhood painful experiences that are affecting me as an adult.

We all go through hard, painful or traumatic experiences as a child, our minds then create a story which we subconsciously hold through to adulthood.

We don’t always realise that childhood experiences are affecting us and causing blocks or resistance as we try to design our lives and go for our goals.

RMR which also comes in non religious forms or more spiritual based forms really is about uncovering the subconscious thoughts and feelings around particular childhood or past hurtful experiences then healing and processing them so they don’t affect us anymore.

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You can also do this work by being curious about the challenges you face or the resistance you feel to taking action on your dreams.

    • What’s going on?
    • What am I feeling in my body?
    • What are the thoughts in my mind?
    • When did I first feel like this?
    • Was there an incident that I felt the same feeling?
    • What happened?
    • Was the story/meaning I assigned to that situation true?
    • What would I say now to that child or younger version of me feeling and experiencing that?
    • What meaning do I choose or does my God tell me is true, that I choose to assign today that empowers me?

I hope sharing my story helps you uncover some things that have held you back and start the journey of healing.

If you aren’t sure what you want form your life then I created Design Your Dreams to help other women do just that

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You're telling me your story and my mind has created a brand for you 😂 True story last week I was coaching someone who I've coached for over a year. 

As she's telling me something God spoke to her on and the lessons she's learned in her wilderness season my mind made up a brand name, a logo and where she could start sharing her lessons. 

For my own fun I mocked up the logo, made her a banner for substack and told her exactly how she could easily start sharing her message - in essence how to start a business. It took me less than an hour.

It can be that simple to come up with a name, create a logo and a banner and start posting on substack or Instagram.

She has a story that will impact others. You do too. 

It needs to be heard.

If you want support in pulling it together I have 3 spots for July for a beta coaching experience. 12 weeks, 1:1 coaching, self study videos and workbooks to get it out of your head and into paper so you know what your message is, who it's for, the transformation you can facilitate and how you do it uniquely.

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You're telling me your story and my mind has created a brand for you 😂 True story last week I was coaching someone who I've coached for over a year. As she's telling me something God spoke to her on and the lessons she's learned in her wilderness season my mind made up a brand name, a logo and where she could start sharing her lessons. For my own fun I mocked up the logo, made her a banner for substack and told her exactly how she could easily start sharing her message - in essence how to start a business. It took me less than an hour. It can be that simple to come up with a name, create a logo and a banner and start posting on substack or Instagram. She has a story that will impact others. You do too. It needs to be heard. If you want support in pulling it together I have 3 spots for July for a beta coaching experience. 12 weeks, 1:1 coaching, self study videos and workbooks to get it out of your head and into paper so you know what your message is, who it's for, the transformation you can facilitate and how you do it uniquely. Book a call bit.ly/DCCalled . . #womenempoweringwomen #shareyourstory #becomeacoach #femalebusinessowner #useyourvoice
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CALLED is now open for enrollment! I've got a value packed offer to take 3 women on this month for a 12 week journey to turn their story and experience into a service or product to create impact and income, 

We'll have 8 coaching calls that will run alongside weekly self study videos to go deep into your lived experience, pull out the gold that your ideal client needs right now.

You'll start with getting rooted in your identity in Christ, because that is the foundation for everything. When we know that, we don't need to push and strive because we know who he has made us, that he is with us and that in our weakness he is made strong.

We'll then look at the MILESTONES in your life, pulling out the shareable lessons. 

Along with your MASTERY, the gifts God blessed you with alongside the skills you've learnt in the highs and lows - combining these to offer something unique, that only YOU can offer.

You'll get clear on who your ideal client is and what makes you the answer to her prayer.

Module 3 focuses on the MESSAGE God has put in you, the motto of your life that you need your ideal women to know.

You'll also get the practical steps of how to share your message easily and remove the stress and overwhelm from content creation.

Module 4 wraps up with mindset and inner healing. I'll guide you as we partner with the great physician to uncover the wounds, lies and beliefs that keep us stuck from sharing our voice and being the women God has called us to be. 

I look forward to speaking with you, send me a DM or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

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CALLED is now open for enrollment! I've got a value packed offer to take 3 women on this month for a 12 week journey to turn their story and experience into a service or product to create impact and income, 

We'll have 8 coaching calls that will run alongside weekly self study videos to go deep into your lived experience, pull out the gold that your ideal client needs right now.

You'll start with getting rooted in your identity in Christ, because that is the foundation for everything. When we know that, we don't need to push and strive because we know who he has made us, that he is with us and that in our weakness he is made strong.

We'll then look at the MILESTONES in your life, pulling out the shareable lessons. 

Along with your MASTERY, the gifts God blessed you with alongside the skills you've learnt in the highs and lows - combining these to offer something unique, that only YOU can offer.

You'll get clear on who your ideal client is and what makes you the answer to her prayer.

Module 3 focuses on the MESSAGE God has put in you, the motto of your life that you need your ideal women to know.

You'll also get the practical steps of how to share your message easily and remove the stress and overwhelm from content creation.

Module 4 wraps up with mindset and inner healing. I'll guide you as we partner with the great physician to uncover the wounds, lies and beliefs that keep us stuck from sharing our voice and being the women God has called us to be. 

I look forward to speaking with you, send me a DM or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

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. #GetUnstuck #RenewYourMindset #LifeDesignJourney #CrisisToClarity #WalkingInPurpose #HeartLedDreams #KingdomPurpose #CalledAndChosen #FaithOverFear #KingdomLiving #BoldInChrist
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CALLED is now open for enrollment! I've got a value packed offer to take 3 women on this month for a 12 week journey to turn their story and experience into a service or product to create impact and income, We'll have 8 coaching calls that will run alongside weekly self study videos to go deep into your lived experience, pull out the gold that your ideal client needs right now. You'll start with getting rooted in your identity in Christ, because that is the foundation for everything. When we know that, we don't need to push and strive because we know who he has made us, that he is with us and that in our weakness he is made strong. We'll then look at the MILESTONES in your life, pulling out the shareable lessons. Along with your MASTERY, the gifts God blessed you with alongside the skills you've learnt in the highs and lows - combining these to offer something unique, that only YOU can offer. You'll get clear on who your ideal client is and what makes you the answer to her prayer. Module 3 focuses on the MESSAGE God has put in you, the motto of your life that you need your ideal women to know. You'll also get the practical steps of how to share your message easily and remove the stress and overwhelm from content creation. Module 4 wraps up with mindset and inner healing. I'll guide you as we partner with the great physician to uncover the wounds, lies and beliefs that keep us stuck from sharing our voice and being the women God has called us to be. I look forward to speaking with you, send me a DM or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled . . #GetUnstuck #RenewYourMindset #LifeDesignJourney #CrisisToClarity #WalkingInPurpose #HeartLedDreams #KingdomPurpose #CalledAndChosen #FaithOverFear #KingdomLiving #BoldInChrist
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Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

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DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

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Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

Photos: Some of the highlights on this biz journey
Do you feel called to turn your story and experience into an offer, but don’t know how to structure it? 

As someone who created a business over 8 years ago using my story, gifts and passions I’d love to help! 

Let me know if you want to connect.

DM me or book a call bit.ly/DCCalled

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Have you found yourself waiting even though you believe God gave you a message to share?
 
Maybe he's even given you the plan but you still haven't launched?
 
Perhaps if you're like me in the past you've been watching webinars and downloading freebies but you're still not taking action.
 
It's quite common and I see it with women I've worked with.
 
So many women stay stuck in preparation mode because they believe they need more confidence, more clarity, more qualifications, or more time before they begin.
 
But that's not true. I believe you already have a seed to plant right now that can grow into something amazing.
 
It's already in you, because it's your life story.
 
In this week’s post, I’m sharing why the answer isn’t another course or another strategy, but learning to turn your Milestones, Mastery, and Message into your Mission.
 
If you’re tired of preparing and ready to finally take the next step, this one is for you.
 
Read the full post over on my Substack. Link 🔗 bit.ly/iswtdplan 🔗

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Have you found yourself waiting even though you believe God gave you a message to share? Maybe he's even given you the plan but you still haven't launched? Perhaps if you're like me in the past you've been watching webinars and downloading freebies but you're still not taking action. It's quite common and I see it with women I've worked with. So many women stay stuck in preparation mode because they believe they need more confidence, more clarity, more qualifications, or more time before they begin. But that's not true. I believe you already have a seed to plant right now that can grow into something amazing. It's already in you, because it's your life story. In this week’s post, I’m sharing why the answer isn’t another course or another strategy, but learning to turn your Milestones, Mastery, and Message into your Mission. If you’re tired of preparing and ready to finally take the next step, this one is for you. Read the full post over on my Substack. Link 🔗 bit.ly/iswtdplan 🔗 . . #CreateYourPath #WalkingInPurpose #HeartLedDreams #CalledForMore #DestinySteps #FaithOverFear #KingdomLiving #KingdomPurpose #LivingOnPurpose
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What does learning a new language have to do with starting a business?

More than you might think.

Today I'm sharing a personal story about moving from Zambia to the UK as a child, losing my mother tongue, and what my colleagues taught me about courage, resilience, and being willing to sound like a beginner.

Because nobody becomes fluent by staying silent.

And the same is true when you're building a business, sharing your story, or stepping into a new season of life.

Read the full post on Substack. 🔗 bit.ly/newspeak1 🔗
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What does learning a new language have to do with starting a business? More than you might think. Today I'm sharing a personal story about moving from Zambia to the UK as a child, losing my mother tongue, and what my colleagues taught me about courage, resilience, and being willing to sound like a beginner. Because nobody becomes fluent by staying silent. And the same is true when you're building a business, sharing your story, or stepping into a new season of life. Read the full post on Substack. 🔗 bit.ly/newspeak1 🔗
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