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May 29, 2025

Why Christian women don’t get results from traditional coaching and courses

Have you ever started a coaching or business course excited to learn new skills — only to feel uneasy when the content shifts toward things like spirit guides, tarot, or astrology? As a Christian woman, that can be confusing and unsettling.

You’re not alone.

Many traditional coaching programs don’t fully honor the faith and values of Christian women who want to grow their business or ministry. Instead of feeling supported, you might end up doubting your path or questioning whether you belong.

But it’s not about you not putting in the effort.

It’s about needing guidance that aligns with your spiritual beliefs and helps you step confidently into your purpose.

That’s why I created Brand New Era — Self Study, a course designed specifically for Christian women who want to uncover their unique, God-given message and share it with confidence — free from doubt and worry.

In this four-module course, you will:

  • Discover the message God has placed within you through your personal story

  • Build the confidence to share your voice authentically

  • Navigate your calling with clarity and faith

  • Take practical steps toward living and working with purpose

If you’re ready to move past confusion and start embracing your calling with boldness and peace, this course is made for you.

Don’t settle for coaching that leaves you feeling uncertain or disconnected from your faith.

Take the first step to uncovering your true message today with Brand New Era — Self Study.

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Why people don't want coaching 🤔 can you relate? I've definitely been there. I have been worried a coach will push me harder than feels comfortable or they'd think my worries were silly or belittle me. My coaching is client led, safe and confidential. I don't judge your goals or desires. I will hold up a mirror to your life but in a gentle and kind way. If you want monthly low cost and low commitment support to test the waters head to the link in my bio "DYD Monthly Coaching
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You don’t need a crisis to want more. Sometimes it’s just a quiet knowing: “I’m meant to express something.” “I’m meant to build something.” “I’m meant to live with more intention.” If you’ve been feeling that nudge, you’re not imagining it. You might just need space and support to listen. I’ve opened a gentle, month-to-month 1:1 support space for exactly this season 🤍 Link in bio. "DYD Monthly Coaching" Want to chat? Dm me to book a call 📞 . . #monthlycoaching #monthlycoachingcall #monthlycoachingclub
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Ever felt like you can’t show up because you haven’t fully arrived in the very thing you teach or coach on?

That whisper of “Who am I to help anyone when I’m still figuring this out?” can feel loud.

I’ve walked through that this year. Anxiety rose up in a way I didn’t expect, and it had me feeling like a fraud.  You may also be having some wobbles around the things you teach or share on it. It's normal. 

The journey of growth and healing isn't linear.

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If you’re feeling wobbly, overwhelmed or unsure of your next step, I made something to get you from crisis to clarity.

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Ever felt like you can’t show up because you haven’t fully arrived in the very thing you teach or coach on? That whisper of “Who am I to help anyone when I’m still figuring this out?” can feel loud. I’ve walked through that this year. Anxiety rose up in a way I didn’t expect, and it had me feeling like a fraud. You may also be having some wobbles around the things you teach or share on it. It's normal. The journey of growth and healing isn't linear. But these moments don’t disqualify you. They deepen you. They rebuild character, sharpen compassion and reconnect you to what really matters. If you’re feeling wobbly, overwhelmed or unsure of your next step, I made something to get you from crisis to clarity. My free masterclass, Crisis to Clarity, is available to watch until the end of the year. Grab a warm drink, a notebook, let’s get you feeling clear and expectant for the year ahead ✨ 🔗 bit.ly/crisis2clarity 🔗 . . . #CrisisToClarity #RenewYourMindset #GetUnstuck #2026vision #2026goals
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A year or so after my wedding I did the big chop. If you're not mixed or black you may not be familiar with the phrase. It's cutting off your chemically straightened hair to grow your natural hair back. 

At this point I was done with living to western beauty standards. This was my first radical act of self love, of loving who creator God had made me. 

Lets not pretend that longer hair and straight hair has been coveted in our communities, cutting it all off to go curly was not a little thing. Especially 20 years ago.

I didn't always love how my hair looked or came out in those early days. Especially as it reached the awkward length phase but I knew I wanted to be able to myself and be ok.

Forward 20 years and I'm in a different place with my hair. Some days I have fluffy edges that aren't slicked down 😆 p.s if you want more info on loving your natural hair check out @paigelewinofficial

Going natural was part of my healing and self acceptance journey. People still "wow" when they see old pictures of me with longer straight hair and I get it, but I'm in a place now where it won't affect how I feel about how my hair or the how I look today.

Healing isn't an overnight thing.

If you want someone to walk besides you in your healing journey whether it's faith based or not my doors are open. Let me know if you want to book a coaching discovery call. 

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A year or so after my wedding I did the big chop. If you're not mixed or black you may not be familiar with the phrase. It's cutting off your chemically straightened hair to grow your natural hair back. At this point I was done with living to western beauty standards. This was my first radical act of self love, of loving who creator God had made me. Lets not pretend that longer hair and straight hair has been coveted in our communities, cutting it all off to go curly was not a little thing. Especially 20 years ago. I didn't always love how my hair looked or came out in those early days. Especially as it reached the awkward length phase but I knew I wanted to be able to myself and be ok. Forward 20 years and I'm in a different place with my hair. Some days I have fluffy edges that aren't slicked down 😆 p.s if you want more info on loving your natural hair check out @paigelewinofficial Going natural was part of my healing and self acceptance journey. People still "wow" when they see old pictures of me with longer straight hair and I get it, but I'm in a place now where it won't affect how I feel about how my hair or the how I look today. Healing isn't an overnight thing. If you want someone to walk besides you in your healing journey whether it's faith based or not my doors are open. Let me know if you want to book a coaching discovery call. With grit and grace, Chisomo . . #healing #selflove #selfdiscoveryjourney #selfdisoverycoach
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In this episode, I’m sharing reflections about identity, worth, dreams and why Christ is the only secure place to build from and be rooted in.

This episode came out of a voice note convo I had with one of my divine led cheerleaders. We were talking about identity work often found in coaching and self development and why it had been helpful but lacking.

I reflect on the impact of right roots in identity, goal setting and following your purpose.

🎧 Tune in now wherever you listen to podcasts.

And ask yourself: What has/have my identity/purpose and dreams been rooted in?

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If you want to be build a rightly rooted business or ministry then check out my course Brand New Era, doors to self study are open until Thursday. It's $99 with a 2 part payment option.

It's a 4 module course that will take 4-8 weeks to help you root your identity in Christ, uncover your God given message and tie it together with your story and skills.

MODULE 1: CALLED & CHOSEN – ROOTED IN TRUTH, YOUR IDENTITY IN CHRIST

MODULE 2: YOUR MESSAGE MATTERS – Gain absolute clarity on your God-given message and why it must be shared

MODULE 3: FINDING YOUR PEOPLE - Identify the people you are uniquely designed to impact and why you’re the ideal person for them.

MODULE 4: BREAKING THE CHAINS - Identify and heal the fears, beliefs, and patterns that have kept you stuck.

✨ bit.ly/bneselfstudy ✨

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In this episode, I’m sharing reflections about identity, worth, dreams and why Christ is the only secure place to build from and be rooted in. This episode came out of a voice note convo I had with one of my divine led cheerleaders. We were talking about identity work often found in coaching and self development and why it had been helpful but lacking. I reflect on the impact of right roots in identity, goal setting and following your purpose. 🎧 Tune in now wherever you listen to podcasts. And ask yourself: What has/have my identity/purpose and dreams been rooted in? 🔗bit.ly/bnerooted🔗 If you want to be build a rightly rooted business or ministry then check out my course Brand New Era, doors to self study are open until Thursday. It's $99 with a 2 part payment option. It's a 4 module course that will take 4-8 weeks to help you root your identity in Christ, uncover your God given message and tie it together with your story and skills. MODULE 1: CALLED & CHOSEN – ROOTED IN TRUTH, YOUR IDENTITY IN CHRIST MODULE 2: YOUR MESSAGE MATTERS – Gain absolute clarity on your God-given message and why it must be shared MODULE 3: FINDING YOUR PEOPLE - Identify the people you are uniquely designed to impact and why you’re the ideal person for them. MODULE 4: BREAKING THE CHAINS - Identify and heal the fears, beliefs, and patterns that have kept you stuck. ✨ bit.ly/bneselfstudy ✨ Got a question? DM me . . #CalledForMore #LivingOnPurpose #KingdomPurpose #CalledAndChosen #PurposeDrivenLife #DivineCalling #GodsPlanNotMine #PurposeInChrist #WalkingInPurpose #DestinySteps
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Being a Christian Isn't Just a Label — It's a New Identity.

In this post, I share a powerful shift God is stirring in this season: moving from surface-level Christianity to deeply living as sons and daughters of God. This identity shift changes everything—how we live, ask, expect, and show up. Ready to live from your full identity?"

I talk more about this powerful shift in identity in module 1 of Brand New Era. And why it’s key when you want to share your God given message through a business, ministry or gift.

⁠Brand New Era⁠ the self study course is currently open until Thursday 10th July.

Watch or listen on the blog: bit.ly/bnedaughter

Find out more about the Brand New Era course at: bit.ly/bneselfstudy

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Being a Christian Isn't Just a Label — It's a New Identity. In this post, I share a powerful shift God is stirring in this season: moving from surface-level Christianity to deeply living as sons and daughters of God. This identity shift changes everything—how we live, ask, expect, and show up. Ready to live from your full identity?" I talk more about this powerful shift in identity in module 1 of Brand New Era. And why it’s key when you want to share your God given message through a business, ministry or gift. ⁠Brand New Era⁠ the self study course is currently open until Thursday 10th July. Watch or listen on the blog: bit.ly/bnedaughter Find out more about the Brand New Era course at: bit.ly/bneselfstudy . . . #IdentityInChrist #SonsAndDaughtersOfGod #RightlyRooted #UnionWithChrist #KingdomMindset #NewCreation #FaithOverFear #BoldInChrist #KingdomLiving #HeirsWithChrist #ChristInMe #FaithBasedLiving #SpiritLedLife #AdoptedByGod
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The dove, the rushing wind and the tongues of fire are ways the Holy Spirit has been described or experienced. 

Today is Pentecost when the spirit of God lit the church and we believers got to receive God's Spirit alive and living within us for personal transformation and to build his kingdom.

Be blessed 🕊️
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The dove, the rushing wind and the tongues of fire are ways the Holy Spirit has been described or experienced. Today is Pentecost when the spirit of God lit the church and we believers got to receive God's Spirit alive and living within us for personal transformation and to build his kingdom. Be blessed 🕊️
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